I have never felt “in love” with my husband. I have been in love before and both times it ended badly. They both broke my heart. I love my husband with all my heart. He’s a great guy. He’s funny, insightful, intelligent, loving and thoughtful. But in 15 years I never felt that head over heels feeling. We got married 4 months after we met, not because we were so passionately in love. We married because we cared about each other, enjoyed being together and we were both ready to settle down. Our s** life is bill now, but even in the beginning it wasn’t much. He’s only brought me to o***** maybe a handful of times, all with oral. He is not real good at foreplay, he gets off too quick. But he tells me how when he was younger and single he made girls moan so loud it disturbed his neighbors. I am grateful to have him in my life, it’s been a good one, I just wonder am I missing out? Or us feeling in love overrated?
