It’s good having friends to hang with at any age but what I disagree with is making it a lifestyle to be around your friends all the time. You go on fun trips and/or expensive cruises and fine dine so much that you ignore the people in your life that doesn’t have the money to go on those trips with you,you speak to them and have less to do with them the more you give your time and money to your money hungry luxurious rich wanna bes. Don’t turn your back on anyone below you on your income level. Especially your family that’s willing to cross the street to visit and you don’t and all you really care about is driving across the map to please people that really don’t give 2 cents about you for who you are. Also,if you are spoiled and your kids are grown ups they are not going to have a thing to do with you because you expect them to cater to your every need and get upset about it. Expecting them to help out when needed is normal and ok but it’s childish and weird to expect them to do what you want them to all the time and get upset when they don’t. If you are one of those people, with all do respect I suggest you get professional help.