I judge you if you get married and take your husband’s name (unless your father was an abusive a****** and you’re dumping his a****** name). Don’t let the patriarchy make you a push-over. If you’re so f****** interested in having the same name as your spouse, he can change his or you can BOTH change your names (at least that’s equal).
Yep. I judge you. And I think you’re kind of stupid.
