I witnessed last night my mom get physically assaulted by my father. He kicked her, stepped on her, slapped her, verbally abusing her the entire time calling her a retard and a b**** as she cried hysterically because he was raging. I had to pull him off of her. He beat me and my sister all the way into adulthood until I physically attacked back last year. I had never seen him hit her before. I demanded to know if that was the first time. My mother denied it happened and said it didnt matter constantly when I told my sister. luckily she believes me though.
My mother is clearly codependent and has issues. She was hysterical. I wish I was more there for her but she has long dragged us into their fights.
It’s like she is mentally retarded. She puts herself down and she has mentally tortured me in the past and physically as well
But no I don’t want to have seen that or had that happen ever in my life. I was furious and disgusted.
They barely make enough living together as it is. My mom is a religious nutbag and her sisters/mom in Korea are f****** selfish b****** for real.
She is so reliant on others even though they treat her like trash. What the f***.
He apologized after and said it was the first time but I dont believe them.
I get that he has his own issues (abused by an alcoholic father, grew up without a mother, etc) but his rage issues are not tolerable. They both arent the kind to get mental help or therapy either. We are talking people in their late 50s here.
If god exists, he would punish my relatives who are nothing but greedy, selfish, religious freaks who ignore my mother when they should be there for her.