My boyfriend thinks he is in control of our relationship by being emotionally withholding and breadcrumbing progression. At the same time, He’s suspicious I’m cheating but I reassure him I’m not. I actually am though. I think it’s insane the amount of loyalty expected when he knows I require more. He gets upset and says I never cared when I want to give up on us. He also refuses to meet needs I have in the name of being “anti authority”(rebelliously immature)I cheat so I don’t become a “nag”. If I have any need he doesn’t meet I don’t even address it with him anymore. Entitlement makes ppl short tempered. I just find another guy. I have like 5/6 guys on rotation. Honestly there is no win in being too available/loyal to any guy unless you’re like married or w.e but honestly even then.
