My best friend morphed into my lover. The big issue is we are both women and I am happily married to a man and I have three children. Do I love her? Yes, no question there. Have I harbored ‘feelings’ for her? That one is hard to answer, we met in college, we roomed together, went to Amsterdam on a study abroad and we shared a tiny apartment and a small full sized bed, we have slept together ever since, still do, my husband has his suite on the other side of the house. Is she ‘his’ woman too? Well, yes. A man can’t have a woman under his roof for fifteen years and not have her be ‘his’ woman. So, college roommates, post college roommates, came with me into marriage, lives with me, sleeps with me, but it is only in the last year that we have become out and out lovers. My husband knows, there are no secrets in our home. So the answer on feelings is that we have been best friends, sisters, life soul mates, but it is only in the last year that lust erupted. And we have to be careful to keep him ‘happy’, he is a ‘man’ when he comes into our room.

We went to counseling and were told outright we are lesbians and we accommodate a man for support and protection. We didn’t disagree on the lesbian part, we had figured that out, but we do disagree on my husband. We are not lesbians when he comes to our room, never have been, never will be. We are 100% into man/woman s** period. We want it, need it, ask for it, and need to get banged by him. It is not a fake feeling.

So that in a nut shell is our, my, revelation.