I have a nanny. She has been in my family for over 14 years, and she takes care of me, my siblings and literally every housing business in my family, cooking, lauyndry, everything. I respect her as a person, but unlike my sister, i have never loved her. In fact, i hate her. She is extremely two-faced. She criticizes everyone behind their back whenever she can, and it’s extremely annoying. She has been very mean to me and my sister, in favor of our baby brother. I would hit her when i was a child, and i want to hit her so bad, now that i’m a teen and knowing the person she really is. But it would be a sin to do that. She manipulates us when we were young, telling us to hate our grandparents and cousins. She rolls her eyes at me all the time when we speak, and i know it’s just how she is, but that is so rude, even if i’m much younger than her. I talked to my mom about it but she never comments anything, and somewaht ignores the situation. What should i do ? How should i treat her?
