My wife and I moved to a retirement community outside Flagstaff Arizona, we are Canadian and moved for the weather. Our next door neighbors who are about our age became friends and they invited us to a ‘party’. Everyone is so tanned, they play golf, tennis, outdoor stuff and we are so white coming from the land of ice. The party is a mixer, all in the buff, get to know your neighbor, if you like each other then go and play, if you like to watch there is that too, there are no gender rules, whatever makes you happy, there is stuff to drink and stuff to smoke, there are blindfolds and toys and handcuffs and whips and chains, and music and lighting and food and lots of rooms to get away and have fun before you get dressed and go back home. We fit right in, we like to mix it up and have fun. Good times ahead, we were worried that we would not be able to meet nice people and have friends.