I have a crush on a younger coworker, but I don't know if she is single. I assume not because she is rather cute and in my experience cute women are

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I have a crush on a younger coworker, but I don’t know if she is single. I assume not because she is rather cute and in my experience cute women are already dating.

Before I would stop by the cube of someone I was interested in and try and chat them up, but I think I developed a reputation of being a horndog and always chatting up the pretty women. Almost all of the time these women were dating or married anyway as I came to discover, so it wasn’t like I was getting anywhere with them.

I was nice to them, friendly without being creepy, I thought, and when they said they had a SO, I took it in stride and continued to talk to them, but realized that my goal of maybe finding a date was done. It was still nice to talk to someone I found attractive, and it gave me hope that maybe they would hook me up with a cute friend of theirs if they saw I was nice and decent.

Now I read that this kind of behavior is called being a Nice Guy™ and I feel like absolute s***. How are people supposed to approach anyone without being labeled as horrible people nowadays?

New Confession

I don’t think I’m going to survive much longer. I’m a failure, and I always will be. I’ll never be my own independent person and I don’t deserve to be. I should’ve gotten it over with years ago.

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I used to go online, find girls to have online relations with. I was a teenager. It started from the start of high school, when I was 15. At worst was F, that was my bottom barrel. It was gross. I don’t know how old she was but she was younger. It was near the end, during the pandemic. I was older, she was younger. I don’t know how much younger, but I was 16 I think. She was younger. Like 2 or 3 years younger, I dunno? It was gross of me. I regret doing it but I fear my regret isn’t because of how I hurt someone, took advantage. They were ok with it in the moment, we were both on the same hookup site. But I was gross. No question about it. There was T too but that was a 16-18 age gap. I deleted the accounts. I was just gross.