I have reason to believe that my pregnancy is a result of a revenge attack initiated by my ex-husband.

Six months ago, I was divorced. I was only married for 18 months, no kids, mortgage on a small apartment in the central business district. It was a long, arduous ordeal and my ex-husband fought hard. I filed for the divorce, and he contested three times in 20 months, before it was finally over.

A month or so later, I signed up for Tinder. I matched a surprising number of really nice looking men, and went on a few dates before matching with “Mark”. “Mark” and I went out twice before we decided that we were both quite attracted to one another. He suggested we go back to my place, and I agreed.

We had s** twice that night, and I was pretty adamant that he use a condom. Both times, I believed that he had ejaculated while inside me and still in the condom, but both times, when I rolled over, he already has the used condom in his hand and it looked empty. I thought maybe he just didn’t ejaculate large quantities.

My v***** was rather wet and slippery, but he was very skilled and I hadn’t had any s** in a long time, so I assumed it was just my v***** being over excited.

The next day, “Mark’s” Tinder profile went missing. His number went straight to VM. My texts went completely unanswered, and his Facebook disappeared (I presume deactivated or I was blocked).

Three weeks later, my ex husband sends me a Facebook message saying “I hope you enjoy being a single parent, w****.” That was when I realized that my period was late.

I was VERY discreet about this s***** encounter. No one could have known about this. No one. Not a friend, or a work colleague, no one.

When I try to talk to my ex about it, he just replies with GIFs of people laughing, or rejects my calls.

I strongly believe that he set me up, and had someone stealth me. I’m pregnant, and very much in a position (financially) to raise this child solo, but what the he’ll do I tell them about their s***** father?! I don’t even really know who he is!!

Signed,
Knocked up and scared.