My boyfriend is one of those types of people who can’t take criticism. At. All. Thing is, he smells like a decaying rat and expects me to cuddle. He showers once every week and a half, and that’s only at my asking him to. I tried asking him every day. He started crying. Yep, crying. Because I was “bullying” him. No, I’m trying to make you do a basic human thing. His breath stinks and his teeth are rotting. Still won’t brush his teeth. I could handle the teeth if he at least used bloody mouthwash, but he doesn’t even do that. For all of this, he uses his sensitive skin issues as an excuse and I’m sick of it. I’m desperate for some advice.
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You must be white. A black woman wouldn’t tolerate such disgusting shit.
Fire him
Or kill it with fire
I was married to a person like this. She would be out all day on the streets of New York City on a hot summer day, come home, take off her clothes (leaving them wherever they fell) and go to bed and there were skid marks on her underwear. No shower. Her breath also smelled. Some people have to be told to take a shower. And some people need to be left. PS Since I left my wife 6 years ago, she told me she hasn’t had sex once. Uh-huh.
You sound like you have a lot of judgement against him, like instead of using “please” or making suggestions or offering to take him to the shower, then loving him afterwards, you’re all “decaying rat.” You just don’t sound like a very nice person.
Maybe because she us sick of having to beg him
Go to the doctor with him and have a doctor explain that he needs to take care of himself and how not bathing enough will cause more skin problems. He needs to brush his teeth and floss too. Have the doctor show him photos of tooth decay and what bad hygiene does to the body long term.
Leave him.