we have this transgender neighbor (and friend) who my mom talks to a lot. i’m very supporting of her being trans. i’ve always been kinda curious about her before she transitioned but i would never dream of getting that personal. one night i was in the living room on the floor and my mom was saying something and i blurted out something i didn’t even think before saying. “jake from state farm” she asked me why i called jen jake. i honestly had no idea she was talking about her or that her before transition name was jake. i told her honestly i didn’t know that was her name and apologized quickly. after that i felt extremely bad even though i didn’t do it purposely. i actually didn’t know that was her name. so now everytime she comes over i always hope my mom never said anything because i truly didn’t know. i support all transgenders and their community so for something like this to happen kinda made me feel guilty. like maybe somehow my mom did tell me and i forgot and when i heard her i blurted it out. anyways i do feel really sorry about this.