Today, my husband confessed to me he had raped someone as a teen but was never put on the s** offender registry because the crime occurred before it went into effect. I caught him sitting on our bed, crying in guilt about what he did nearly 30 years ago (we are both in our mid-40s). We have three children, a nice house, and good community life. He has always treated me with respect. Should I leave him? How can I stay married to a r*****? But I love him dearly.