Okay so.. I’m a bit young really, I’ve had 1 legitimate, serious, relationship with this 1 guy. He’s really nice, like. Very, very. We were friends at first, got along well for our mutual love of games and similar personality traits and small coincidences. At that time he already had a girlfriend, but he wasn’t happy. He felt neglected by her, was so depressed, so I pitied him. A few months went by, helped him settle their barely-there relationship. They broke it off and I confessed to him… I honestly feel like I stole him from her. He told me he was fine with it. We started dating around late august of last year. At first i was so happy that i could actually make someone else happy, loved, for once. The months that followed though.. I wasn’t happy either. I felt like i was forcing everything for him, i felt fake. I felt so bad, like I’m taking advantage of him….. It’s weird. I started the cycle for him again, being the neglectful girlfriend. I didn’t reply to his texts, we wld fight. So I broke it off, hoping that maybe he’ll find someone better. Its been about 2 months since then. I don’t even know why or what I’m confessing.. I just need to get it off my chest.. My family keeps urging me to get back together with him when I don’t feel happy with it…. I guess it’s ’cause I built him up and broke him.. I shld just kms.
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You just wanted to help him and probably most of your relationship was built on this. I’ve been in similiar situation. Wanted to help him, fix him. But then the reality came and showed that it’s not enough. You can’t be the only giving side. You can’t be with somebody because you’re a support – you have to be a support because you are with somebody. I know you wanted well. I know it hurts now, but don’t, just DON’T say that you should kill yourself. Maybe what you did was hurtful for him, but the whole relationship was hurtful for you. It’s good to make somebody happy, but not when it puts you down. My advice? Your happines should always be first. And fall in love with somebody, who thinks the same. Like some intelectual, Jaden Smith said, “People Think A RelationShip Makes You Whole, That It’s Two 50%’s Coming Together To Make 100% When It Should Be Two 100%’s Making 200%”. As it may be funny, it is also true.
don’t kill yourself. I literally told people the guy I like sent me dick pics and HE KNOWS and now won’t talk to me. I wanna kms too but hey. we’d all be dead if that how everyone thought
Yikes dude,, how’d that turn out
Why does your story sound so familiar to me…this is fishy….
Elaborate?
Heh well I feel like I’m the other side of the story…’Cause last year my ex left me for a girl from his work…coincidence?
How is it that I’m too young but….have lived an adult experience. Wtf. Try being a kid first damn, wait till you get older you will wish you had!!!!!!