I tried having s** with my boyfriend for the first time and turns out his p**** is the size of a tampon (literally), and it was awkward and traumatizing. And since s** with my ex was great, this depresses me a lot. I really like my current boyfriend and do not wish to leave him by any means, but i’m afraid my s** life will be terrible from now on.
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Buy a vibrator and incorporate it into your sex.
Talk to him about it but be sensibele with his insecurities. Pleasure isn’t just derived from the penis
Teach him how to use his mouth and fingers to excite you
Take control of the situation. Try not to make him feel bad about his size. I know this is an easy thing to say and an incredible hard thing to do. I have a smaller penis and I know I do. I thinking he knows it as well. So maybe tell him that you would like to talk about penises. It would probably be good to do some research of positions that help with smaller penises and also help him to really get to know your erogenous zones. Give him the master key to all the places that drive you wild. Teaching him this will empower him to know that he is giving you great pleasure even if it is not with his penis. I am not saying to not have penal intercourse as well. Does he seem to really enjoy it or does his size also affect his pleasure? If it does make sure that he also has a great orgasm. You two need to make this your journey for pleasure. If you can not do that together than maybe it is not meant to work.
just eat his ass
Fuck what everyone else is saying. Put yourself and your pleasure first. Sure he’s a nice guy but sex is such a big part of a relationship. If you can’t be comfortable with it then you never will be and it will hurt you worse in the long run. Do yourself a favor and leave him, all the other alternatives will never be as good as regular sex. Trust me, I’ve experienced it. He’ll be hurt but thats not your problem. That’s his anatomy he’ll have to deal with it.