I could not perform s******* with my first girlfriend. Her name is Jennifer. It wasn’t that I didn’t like her and she was definitely into the idea of having s**, but I couldn’t get it up. We dated for over a year and I could never become erect enough to get it in her. I had the same problem with my second girlfriend for the first few months, but eventually I was able to complete the act. Years later it still hangs in the back of my mind anytime that I’m with a woman, “what if it doesn’t work”. Occasionally I still have the same problem, but I make an excuse like “I’m tired” or “I have a lot on my mind”.
