I decided to settle down with a long time friend of mine. She was my first girlfriend and, longing for stability in mine and my children’s lives, I asked her to move in with me. This didnt happen overnight. This was several monthes of planning. She obliged and she quit her job, sold her car, brought her child and moved across the united states to my house. Shes perfect. She cooks, shes sweet but theres a problem i did not foresee.. i am absolutely not attractive to her whatsoever. I don’t even sleep with her. I’m not trying to be petty but, this is kinda of key in a relationship. To be somewhat a little attractive to the other, right? It’s seriously dampening my mood because now, I want her to move back. I’m not happy. We don’t see eye to eye on things and she usually just gives in without any input, which I really don’t like. I want her to be unique and an individual. But, the biggest is, I’m just not physically attracted to her. I’m sorry, I know I sound like a complete jackass but this is my only forum to be honest. It would devastate he to know how I really feel. What can I do? I can’t just send her back across the united states.