I don’t know why I can’t have s** with my ex-boyfriend. He’s trying to reconcile with me. I have feelings for him and love him and he’s great in bed but for some reason I just don’t have the desire to have s** with him. Sometimes I feel like he’s a better lover than me, and there’s a disconnect, its hard to explain. While we were in a relationship we didn’t have s** for four months. However since I’ve been single I’ve had s** with two different people in week and they were terrible plus I couldn’t wait until it was over. I have interest in having s** with other people too. Something about having s** with a new person (that meets my standards) is exciting to me. Maybe its my ego, or the hunt and the kill aspect. The funny part is I don’t want to be known as a s*** and I’m having a hard time telling my ex-boyfriend I don’t want to get back with him because I want to sleep with other people. I sort of tried to tell him (saying I like to flirt and make new friends) and he was crushed.