Hello, I am a 19 years boy and I never had a girlfriend ( mainly because I am very shy ) BUT since the college started ( almost 1 month ) there is this girl that I like a lot and I think she likes me too ( but that’s just my opinion ) and I want to ask her out. Now, the funny part is that I don’t know where to take her for the first time ( if she says yes ).Should it be day or night? A coffee or juice or a cake or something to eat or somewhere to just walk together ( it is very cold outside btw ). As I said, this is my first time to do this so have mercy :). All comments are welcome.
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It is all about being comfortable for you. I always recommend a very random date. An example could be go grocery shopping for ingredients to cook dinner together, but for you it is all about feeling comfortable. What girls are looking for is not a fun place, but a fun person. If a coffee house is your scene take her there. The key is to make yourself standout. Hope this helps.
Start small. Don’t jump to anything big straight away. Ask her out to lunch. A nice Cafe. Don’t buy her anything on first date, it’ll make you seem desperate. After lunch, recommend you go for a nice walk or maybe even a nice quiet place to chat. After the date make sure to let her know your intentions to go on a further date, maybe even plan another lunch date, or if your feeling a big spark then dinner. Just don’t splash out too much money straight away or she’ll think that you think she’s materialistic. Also dress nice. No sloppy shirts or ripped trousers. Make sure it’s obvious you made an effort.
Awww remember be confident . But no too confident. And let her choose (coming from a girl)
Make it during the day. Before you ask her out find out if she likes coffee. Not everybody does. And then you can use that as a starter to ask her out on a coffee date. Otherwise if she doesn’t ask her if she wants to grab a juice/bite to eat and walk around town to get to know each other. Another good thing is if you are any clubs and their is a club event, invite her to stop by. Hope it helps. Good luck! 🙂 by the way this is coming from a girl.