i fell in love with this guy 4 month ago, and he is like my best friend… 2 months later, we are that close so the whole uni started thinking we are dating. a lot of ppl ve been asking us if we re dating, we always replied no^^. but im completly onto the guy, i love him terribly! we always talk about love and s** and stuff like that, but he never asked me out, and im shy to ask him out :$
now we are even closer, ppl draw us on walls… we became a legend at work… and yet… he is not decided to ask me out and im burning!
another thing, a friend of mine started falling in love with him too…he flirts with her from time to time just to watch my reactions,,, she dosent know that i love him, only she feels it, she asked me several times if i love him, and finally went and told him that i was dying for him, and now he thinks i told her! i feel glad that he knows, yet im still worried that he only talks to me because i pity him! like i always kiss him i awkward places like on this arms, his belly or his hair :$
he always talk 2 me on msn, we always spend an amazing time together, and even if it’s total silence between us, just feeling his presence, his hair between my fingers, the sound of his heartbeat or the way he breath is enough to make my day 🙂
what to do? do i have to confess my love to him even though he knows? or should i keep my patience and keep waiting till he asks me out? 🙂
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if he already knows and didn’t do anything about it, then there is a major chance he doesn’t feel the sameway. OR he does but decided to not do anything about it!
Eitherways you are almost bound to get rejected (i say this with 99% confidence), why put yourself through that?!
Just go for it. Ask him out!! That way you will stop suffering thinking whether he feels the same way or not or if he will eventually ask you out. If he says no then there is nothing you could of done. If he doesn’t feel the same way then move on and keep on going with you life. I myself can relate to this guy (that is if he feels the same way about you). I find it hard to start a relationship sometime because I am indecisive or think it over too much but once we start going out it is so easy for me to express myself. So just go for it. No Fear.
so the guy is afraid to make the first move; but the girl is supposed to overcome her fear & do it?
when did women have to be brave & it was okay for guys to be wusses.
Don’t listen to comment 2.
He doesn’t want to make first move; either for fear of rejection or fear of commitment, but he thinks its okay for you to deal with either?
Don’t you see the double standards in all of this?
This advice clearly comes from someone self-centered & not to mention a dating rookie!