my gf and i have been together for over eight years (i am also female). the s** is great…just too infrequent for me. and i feel unattractive and unwanted and unloved simply because her libido is less than mine. when we do it, yeah it’s amazing, just not enough. i have tried to talk, explain, express how i feel. but nothing has changed. i am always the accomodator. what can i do…before the urge to cheat takes over. if i don’t get it somewhere i fear i may just shut down forever.
