I Self-harmed today for the first time in a year. I thought I had gotten away from releasing pent up feelings with a knife, but this situation I’m in is wearing me down. My car got stolen at the beginning of the year and since I didnt have any way to replace it I lost my job and got evicted, resulting in me having to move back in with my mom. a few months later I reconnected with an old ex that I left because she was too immature. She seemed to have grown up a lot but then after 3-4 months she lost her job and when she got evicted me and my mother invited her in, thinking she’d get a job and help me move out together. Its been 2 months and she’s barely job hunted and I’ve had to pay for all of her stuff… this is not what I agreed to or wanted… I’m extremely stressed between work, college, and trying to get her to be responsible. I’m really close to telling her she has to leave but I really don’t want to. I love her but she is ruining that. (Backstory, she and I are both 21)