My wedding shower was ruined by my fiancées family today. I love him, and his parents and siblings. The rest of his family are all shallow, judgmental assholes. No girl should have to cry on the day of her shower. This is the one and only time I will get married, and now this memory is tainted by them treating me like s***. I’m weird to them… I have tattoos. I swear more than I should, and usually have a glass or two more of wine than the rest of them, but they don’t even try to get to know me. If they can’t see that my fiancée and I make each other happy, what kind of a family is that? Him and his parents have my back, which is comforting. But it still s**** to know that every family function, the rest will be there judging and acting f****** weird and bitchy. What am I supposed to do? Why is it that families are so fucked up? Since families are genetically connected, you’d think they would value each other more, treat each other with unconditional love and respect and understanding. That is family to me. That is what I try to offer them but they make me feel just so damn uncomfortable and it just s****, and I am too shy and anxious to say anything about it to them because I am outnumberd.