I’m a 15 years old girl and there is something I want to tell you. Not because it’s interesting or exciting, just because I can’t tell anyone, and it keeps nagging on me and I’m very confused about it.
There’s this guy, a kind of a friend of the family, maybe around 48-49. We don’t visit him very often, but the last time we did, he scared me so much, that I never want to see him again.
Just the way he was looking at me already made me nervous and he always tried to stay near me and lay his arm around me. He said things like “You could stay here for some time and help me with all the work” or “Wouldn’t it be nice if you could stay here for a while?” to me and my sister. It just… a kind of creeped me out. And then, my Mom was busy, we said goodbye, hugged – and he grabbed my b***. I was so shocked, I thought I imagined it. I stayed calm (he did nothing more), made no fuss out if it, no big deal, but actually my heart was beating like crazy and when I finally sat in the car, I realized that I was shaking slightly.

I didn’t tell my Mom and that’s what bothers me so much. Usually I tell her everything, but that’s something I’m too ashamed of. The problem is, he hasn’t raped me or done anything like that – he just squeezed my b*** while we hugged. I don’t want to make trouble, because I’m ok as long as I don’t have to see him again, even though I know that’s exactly the way it starts. …isn’t it? I feel so unsecure.