Me and a “good” friend of mine had been looking forward to spending some s*** time together in the near future, next week to be precise. Today, out of nowhere, I find out that he magically entered in a relationship with a girl (he’s openly gay, as I am). I can deal with that. What pisses me off is that he was still planning on the two of us sleeping together next week, claiming that his girlfriend was aware of all of this and didn’t mind. Sorry but no, f*** you. I’m not going anywhere near that kind of situation.

Worst is that he knows that I have some level of feelings for him. I’m not madly in love with him and never was, but I thought he was a decent guy and had great fun with him, so I thought that maybe there could be an opportunity somewhere that this could go further and made that thought known to him. He didn’t share that same level of interest however, which is fine with me, and we kept up the same level of “friendship” we’ve had since we became friends.

But now he’s in a relationship and still wants to sleep with me like nothing’s ever changed. Seriously…calm your d*** down and take some time to consider the situation you’re putting other people in. I don’t care that you claim your new ‘girlfriend’ is fine with it. Not only do I have no clue who it is and she came out of nowhere, but unless I hear it directly from her mouth, there’s just no f****** way in hell that I’m going to trust you on this. “Nobody’s going to dictate how I live my life” you said…doesn’t sound like a guy who’s had that “talk” with his girlfriend about him wanting some side dishes along with his main course.

I don’t get angry easily, I really don’t. That’s just not how I am, but there are just no words that comes to mind at the moment to describe how I feel about this whole situation. I know you’re going through some hard times too, and I most likely didn’t help when I was pretty straightforward with you about how I felt with this. I care about you and you know it, but there’s just no way I’m going to just stand there and let myself be toyed around like this or I’ll just end up getting seriously burned.

Good luck with your new girlfriend. I don’t know how long a relationship between a gay guy and a woman can last, although I assume not very long, but there’s just no way I’m going to be part of any of this. I think it’s time we say “Good Bye”.