I have genital Herpes, have for about 5 years or more.. My boyfriend of a year and a half (has known me for about 4 years and has known the whole time what I have) has been having unprotected s** with me since I can remember but won’t go down on me.. Ever… I don’t really get the difference If you can’t get it unless it’s there.. *sigh* it’s like my favorite thing in the world he has done it a few times and he is great I just wish he would more..