My partner and I after 6 years s** life has decreased dramatically. This has been troubling me for a while and i have talked to him about it as i feel inadequate and self esteem is shot….it has really taken a tole on my that i am questioning the relationship. Recently he admits to be that he is addicted to masterbation. I know hes not a cheater but it feels like its the same thing regardless if its with himself. I knew guys did that however, i never expected it to be a problem. He has the real thing right in front of him and consciously chooses not to.. he says he feel guilty and that he cant stop anyway. I never shy away from him or tell him no. at this point i am really hurt and this is ruining our relationship