My heart is broken. I felt I had raised my son to be a good young man, but all that was crushed when I discovered n*** photos on his phone and P****** in his bedside stand. There was even a shot of a man’s privates – possibly his – along with the n*** girls. I have failed as a Christian father and I must share this with our pastor for advice. I don’t know how to talk to my son.

Perhaps I was wrong for snooping on his phone, but I believed he would only have wholesome pictures, not naked girls and a picture of his (?) organ. I must confront him, but not until I speak with our pastor. Why, Lord? What did I do?