There’s a big possibility that the guy I am with, who is very sweet if not slightly clingy, is not the man who will be marrying me. He is younger by a year or more and less mature than me, and I feel the impending doom of the biological clock but he is just getting into college and has a career to plan and has set years in a ‘verbal agreement’ that is mostly just his side imposing on my wants.

While I want him to succeed in life, he does not understand that I do not want to be almost thirty before I get married… And since he is so set in his ways, I am not sure if this will last very long…

Should I stay in spite of this? Or just wait until the inevitable happens and find someone a little more flexible? I still love him, I just worry that love is but an igniting factor that is highly overrated when it comes to deciding life goals….