It really hurts my feelings that no one gets excited about my life accomplishments…I get that only I need to be excited about them but I don’t know or understand why in my whole life if I accomplish something or attain a goal no one gets excited like I see them get excited for other people. Like, a lot of people are getting married this year, and for the weddings both before and after mine I see and hear (and yes on social media) all these congrats and fawning and special events put on as a surprise for the newlyweds or newly engaged and frankly no one did any of that for me or my husband. All the “you’re so perfect for each other” and the “you look so beautiful” didn’t happen. It’s very hurtful. I mean, some of the brides were as fat or even fatter than me (real talk, not judging) so…I just don’t get it. It feels so unfair. It’s the same social group…maybe no one likes me after all…maybe they’re jealous. But either way it’s so difficult. Why are people so inconsistent and uncaring?
