I’m only 26 years old, and I have been with my husband for a year now. Even before the wedding, my husband’s parents have pressured us about having our own biological children. And, frankly, our reproductive choices and how we build a family is our own business. So after much arguing about it, my husband kindly asked them to back off a bit. They did for awhile, but a month ago my husband’s mother sent me an email saying that if I couldn’t “Provide the mandatory contributions to their son’s marriage” then I would no longer be welcome. I haven’t told my husband about the email. Even if I did tell him I don’t think he would be stern enough with them.I don’t know if it’s appropriate for me to say something to them. I know full well what I WANT to say, but I don’t know if I should say it, or if I can say it without making things worse.