I saw that my confession got 27 views. If you’re wondering, I’m the autistic guy who talked about how crazy people on the Internet tried flirting with me no matter how old they were. I’m just confused on why random people would be doing that.
Like I’ve been told stranger danger to look out for people in real life, but I never expected people online to be like that because I was new to be online world of social media and stuff and I mostly just interacted with people in real life and I was basically just in my own isolated bubble for the most part.
I’m just saying this to basically be transparent and clear things up for people who probably see my confession as total BS or probably just trying to lie about something. I don’t know why random people younger than me were trying to flirt with me. There were some older people, even trying to flirt with me, though not as many.
I want you to know that I rejected the people younger than me ultimately because it was wrong and also because I realize that looking back there tactics of trying to be friend, me and love bomb me were emotional manipulation. They have even apologized to me when I was letting them know that I was uncomfortable.
I don’t blame them or anything, it’s just absolutely weird that people no matter how old they are could be very creepy or manipulative. We’re always sold to watch out for adults in real life and now even more so online, but we also need to watch out for teenagers being predatory in real life and online, especially with them lying about their age is using fake IDs to get into clubs or bars or even using dating apps or social media to try to seek out inappropriate situations with older men or women.
The whole point of my previous confession was simply just to bring the dangers of online world to light, especially because even a teenager could be just as creepy, especially when they find someone attractive or even when they just want to exploit somebody for whatever reason.
Now, if anyone has been through this scenario, I am implore you not to have any hatred in your heart for teens, who would do that, because while immaturity is no excuse, I sincerely hope that many of those types of people realize their behavior and change and maybe even try to seek out amends. I actually spoke with someone who had done that sort of thing as a minor towards someone who is four years older than them. They start out as friends, and then the minor kept pressuring the guy into a relationship with them despite at the very beginning, the guy kept saying no and was just trying to respect the boundaries of being friends, but overtime he got worn down and basically, they ended up in a brief online relationship, which then the kid surprisingly, but then get upset about but then years later, they realize that they were the ones who initiated contact and basically did the pressuring and manipulation.
They even told me that the guy apologized to that if they made them uncomfortable in any way to which the person involved told me that the guy didn’t really do anything wrong that they just went along with the person’s actions after they were being pressured and manipulated into doing so. I told this individual to probably seek out this person and try to make amends to even apologize for their actions and they even acknowledge that their immaturity does not excuse their behavior, especially with how they acted and tried to be manipulative.
