1. I think men only use me for s**. The worst part is that somehow I make that happen and I don’t know how.

2. I f*** up everything good in my life.

3. I am chasing a guy that may have loved me but is over me now but I just can’t let go. It makes me feel worthless and unloveable but I still do it. I can’t stop.

4. I am too needy even though I really try to act “cool” but they always eventually find out and then they don’t like me and I feel terrible about myself.

5. I choose have no life which is sad because I have everything going for me.

6. I think that my best friends are sick of me.

7. I have no self control.

8. I pretend that I don’t want their money but really I do want men to spend huge amounts of money on me so I will believe that they really do care about me.

9. I think that I drive people crazy and I am annoying to be around but everyone really likes me anyway and I don’t understand why.

10. I can’t keep my mouth shut. I tell everybody, everything and I hate doing it but I can’t stop.

11. I just want someone to love me but I don’t believe that I am worth their love really.

12. I have no real problems so I create them by doing stupid things and then regretting them – then that becomes my problem.

13. I was molested as a child and I liked it.

14. I am filled with shame and self loathing and I think that people know just by looking at me so I always feel awkward.

15. I present myself as a s***** deviant into every crazy thing, but I really just want love.

16. I am always afraid.

17. I don’t think who I really am, is worth loving.

18. I don’t think that there is a God and I worry what will happen when I die if I am wrong.

19. I am completely self absorbed and I am embarrassed by that.

20. I try to hide who I really am all the time because I am not good enough.

21. I beleive that you have to play “hard to get” to be effective at dating but that is not who I really am and because of that, I will never be able to find love.

22. I think I am a burden to everyone close to me.

23. I crave to be a “together” person but I doubt that I ever will be and it makes me feel sad.

24. Sometimes I wish I would just die so the feelings would be numbed finally and there would just be darkness, quiet and nothingness.

25. I’m not smart enough to learn from my mistakes.