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“AN EYE FOR AN EYE LEAVES THE WHOLE WORLD BLIND” – MISSES THE POINT.

Tomorrow, Jesus quotes the so-called “Lex Talionis”, the law of “t** for tat” whose earliest articulation is found in the Code of Hammurabi (around 2285-2242 BC). The idea that it is a law that opens the door to perpetual vengeance is flat-out wrong and a misunderstanding of the law.

It was, in fact, meant to stem the cycle of violence. It meant that if someone took an eye from you, you cannot take both his eyes, but only one. It was, in fact, far from being a law of savagery, the beginning of mercy.

But the wonder of Jesus’ teaching in tomorrow’s gospel is precisely that we, his followers, must transcend even that point. We must go beyond the barest minimum, the just minimum. “Justice”, philosophical ethics tells us, “is the minimum of love”. To which Jesus responds – thereby exhorting us: “Love is the fulfillment of justice.”

“Verso l’alto” – “To the heights”, exclaimed Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati. It was the guiding principle of his saintly life. “Offer to God only what is worth offering”, said Saint John Vianney. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me,” says the Letter to the Philippians 4:13. And “the good enough”, the medieval scholastics tell us, “is the enemy of the good”.

We are challenged to go beyond the bare minimum – even if that bare minimum is the beginning of something good, like the Law of Retaliation.

“Go beyond!”, Jesus says. “Transcend. Exceed. I am with you. Forgive. Love. Care. Hope. Dream. Be excellent. You can!”

New Confession

You told me this was the first time you crossed my boundaries. But you’ve forgotten. this is the second. The first was the Kota Kinabalu trip. Japan makes it the second.

Your words have become hard to trust. So many times, you said the trip was confirmed. Then suddenly, you claimed the ticket wasn’t even purchased. I feel like a fool—a fool who kept believing you and your words. Believing that there was nothing between you and her. Believing, for six long years, that we were still something real.

But I was wrong.

We didn’t pass the test of hardships. You failed me. I was burned out. You were facing career loss. Instead of standing by me—or us— we drifted.

Maybe we simply weren’t strong enough when it mattered. It’s sad. But now, at least, the truth is clear. I just hope it isn’t too late for you to see what you’ve really chosen.

Now that you’re semi-retired, you choose to travel—with her. That was the plan all along, wasn’t it? So carefully thought out. So flawlessly executed.

An excellent plan.

And here I am, left behind, still trying to believe in something that never stood a chance. While I was holding on, you were already moving on—emotionally and physically.

I won’t contact you again—not out of spite, but because I need to leave with whatever dignity I have left. I told you before: the moment you chose to cuddle her, or travel one-on-one with her, that would be the end of us.

You’re a well planner.

And I know I deserve better.

Deleted your contact number. And this will be my last message to you because you ended the relationship abruptly and block my messages after. I hope my love for you won’t turn into hatred.

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