It’s happening. My side guy is becoming obsessed with me.
He called off his marriage, and asked me what he needs to do to get me to break up with my main guy. He’s breaking his previous rules of ‘no kids’ to suddenly, I will give you kids if you want them and lets do it without a condom(he would always obsess over needing a condom – he would never do it without one).
I told him I was confused because I had thought we agreed to keep it casual, and I’m feeling very unsure about the whole thing. He has shown me some serious anger issues, he’s possessive, and that is okay if he’s going to remain a side guy (bf material not husband material). Now that he’s telling me all of this, I’m a little nervous that he will just ‘accidentally’ nut in me.
He had said in previous meetings ‘It’s really not up to the girl to have the baby, it’s up to the guy! He could just ‘oops!’ and then you’re pregnant.’ X_X
AND he also said ‘This line struck a cord with me’ and he pulled up a song, the lyrics go ‘my side chick got pregnant by her main dude and I’m offended.’

He recently said we will keep doing this forever(meeting in secret – but before he said he’d be a old memory down the road!) and he wants to know how to ‘cuff it’. ‘I’m pretty sure you and I feel the same way about each other.’
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I’m so stressed. I just wanted another boyfriend.. My main dude was being an a****** and things were going south fast which lead to boyfriend number 2. Things evened out with bf number 1 but now.. I still have bf number 2. I never pictured myself as this person with multiple partners. I’ve only been with like 3 ppl and now this?? I don’t know how others do it. and I don’t know what I’m going to do. These are two whole real people who want a future. I can’t give my future to BOTH of them. I’m just stressed because I don’t want to lose either. and I don’t need bf2 to suddenly get cocky and ballsy by showing up at my home. Agh just venting