None at all.

But part of it is I am confident enough to know that I’m a better choice than most men. In other words I know that one way or another, she’s probably gonna be back. She’s with him she’s thinking of me. The fact that I don’t fight it or get excited upset, while at the same time giving her my complete attention and care when we are together without insecurity, she’ll be back.

Unless she finally decides she doesn’t want that idea anymore, the way I see things, she wants a man who is jealous insecure, and does not want her seeing other men. Including me. In which case she has a choice. It’s him or me. It might be him, it might be me, but going back to my big point, I know and love/like a lot of women, maybe not a lot, but more than one. so it’s not an issue for me. I love and am open to a lot of women, as they are with me.

Friends, really good real true friends, it’s not a cascade on my part, with benefits. That’s all it is.