Or another example. Say I sense interest on her part. But Inam not interested for certain reasons. Maybe some reasons are unfair, she is a dead ringer for a woman I have a 2 way dislike for. That’s unfair, but not something I can shake (although if you back off, keep your distance a d let me breath, I might be able to overlook that, and at least be pleasant but still not interested.

Say another woman who knows us both literally asks why I don’t consider this woman, ai tell her why, apologize and say no. I can’t get past that. Just the way it is. I am not interested, thirsty, I like life how it is ATM.

Alright so say 2 months before, Guns N Roses, Paradise City is playing on the radio in another room I am standing in, I walk into her space talking, not so ging, speaking along to a lyric from the song. She looks at me confused and asks what the f*** I’m talking about, I open the door, let her hear the song, she still doesn’t get it, so I walk out of the office, leaving her think I’m crazy. The nest day, I say to her, remember yesterday when you thought I was nuts? I was mouthing the lyrics to Paradise City. And she got it.

Alright so fast forward to after both those incidents… Don’t show up wearing Guns N Roses shirt…… My type would listen to Celine Dion. Or Country. Nice music.

I love GNR more than anything, I’ve been thinking lately I should learn You Could Be Mine on guitar, GNR is the roots of my teen years in the 80’s BUT GNR is one of those bands, it’s too easy. It’s like AC/DC. I can not e certain of your rock n roll love status if you claim you are a GNR fan. Jees, my mom bought me a GNR guitar book 12 years ago. Which I thought was funny and awesome, but that’s my point. They’re too easy. My mom went for GNR on first instinct. Everyone knows them. Sure as heck don’t go hip hop, just don’t try to be what you think I want. That will not work especially if I’m already dead set against for probably 3 reasons. Sometimes you just need to forget it and find something else. I don’t even pursue women I really like, who like me for reasons that are also legit. I’m not needy, thirsty, whatever else. I’m good. I’m not interested.