To the person who confessed that they’re hurting from their mother who told them to get over their trauma…you should cut contact with your mother….you NEED to! Or if you’re unable to, give her the same treatment. Whenever she talks about her trauma or something bad that happened to her, tell her to get over it and say mean, insensitive things.

Also, I don’t recommend this…but start destructing yourself, like by smoking, vaping, or drinking. Or maybe eating less. And make sure you flaunt it to her and show her that you’re hurting because of her except not directly. I hope things get better.