You don’t really need a good job to be a responsible citizen, paying your tax, because yeah say what you will about taxes, they do keep most things in life, your surroundings from liking like a p************. Unless you love in the city like me where the climate kicks the s*** out of the road fast enough, so they are some of the most brutal in the world, literally, but yeah. They pay for s*** like that, but anyway, I went off in another direction there. And yeah… Personally, I wod not be able to be with a woman who can’t support herself and hers, can’t well. She can carry herself well. And I do my best too. I do alright. It’s could be and has been worse, but I won’t expect a thing either. I really won’t. I just believe that the only way to make sure it isn’t about money in any way, because not thinking about money and someone else’s money… You can’t be certain if the relationship is actually real love and friendship. That’s what I believe. The only way to elimi ate that is. Either party needing the other that way. That’s what I think it is with me. I won’t expect a thing. That’s great. I don’t even care is she makes more than I do. That’s great. No jealousy or insecurity here. But sometimes, I am going to want to drop too much money, not often, but twice a year I might fly off the handle and drop $400 on something for me. It might be responsible, I like a couch that I need, the current one is scuzzy, ugly and I know the sweat off the back of my head soaked mop in August during 3 summers has eaten the pleather. Or I might decide I wanna Xbox Series S. Which sometimes. I want to play in peace, with nobody around.
That’s just the way I see it. I’m old fashioned about most things, it’s the only way for me to be sure. I’m not one of those guy, if I was a millionaire, I would trust many women. Most guys dream about being a millionaire and picking any Schick you want, because your loaded, but you gotta think, how many of those are real? I would never use s*** like that to get “love” or friendship. I don’t do that. There is something admirable about that too though. Smart woman. Successful women in one respect or another. And like I said I can carry me and then some too. I’m good. I’d also say I have passed up opportunities, I’mm a man, I have passed up opportunities, years ago, with more than one woman who mea t something to me, and I did to them, I known that, these were important relationships, separating, for a decade or slightly more, the encounters… They .want something to me, to them, it was right there for both of us, I didn’t do anything? Why? Because I was t were I thought I should be in life and I did not to ruin something