When I met my stepdaughter, she was only a few months old. I married her mother and legally adopted her when she was six. I’ve been the only father figure she’s known. Now she is 15 and looks more and more like her mother did when I first met her every day. I’m trying hard to suppress the urge to “check out” my own stepdaughter, and I make myself sick just thinking about it. I am not a pervert. I am not some sick guy with daddy/daughter fantasies. But my wife looks nothing like she did when I married her, and her daughter – my daughter – does.