The other day this guy who has an interest in me knocked on my door. He is a short, overweight and doesn’t look like he takes care of himself. I told him, politely, that I didn’t have feelings for him. What was I suppose to do? Charity date him? Lead him on and dump him later? So I tell him the truth and he puts his head to the ground and sulks as if I have just destroyed his universe. Do you guys who do this know what a turn off this is to a girl? We women like men who are strong, confident and value themselves. When you act as if we’ve destroyed your universe when we turn you down, it makes you look weak and like your whole self-image depends on being approved by a woman. I really hope not all guys act this way when a woman rejects them. Is this suppose to be some kind of f*****’ guilt trip into charity dating you or something? Again, I don’t charity date. What do I look like? The Salvation Army?
