After over a year of celibacy, my wife and I finally had s** last night. (She was pregnant last year and now the newborn takes all of our energy.) The thing is, I’ve gotten into the habit of m*********** every night before heading off to the bedroom, since I knew she wouldn’t want to have s**. I figured I was doing her a favor by taking care of it myself. Last night, when we were finally having s**, I couldn’t finish because I am so used to the way it feels when I do it. She felt like I didn’t want her – like she was ugly after having the baby. Not true. I just am not used to the feeling of actual s** anymore.
