I am 37, have a job that I love, make a decent salary, and live in a beautiful place that is warm all the time. I am debt free and have a large savings account. I am respected as a professional. I don’t want to come off as bragging, I am just proud of what I have accomplished. However, all of this is about to change. My wife wants to go to grad school far away from where we live. Chances are good that she will be accepted. I will have to follow her. I will have to leave this place I love and my job that I love and start all over in a place I do not want to be. Or, I could just leave her. This I do not want because I enjoy our relationship and want to stay together. I will wind up following her and starting over. It sometimes makes me mad that I have to give up what I love so my love can have what she wants. We have been together for a long time and she has made sacrifices in the past for me and helped me when I was struggling, so I do understand it all. But still…
