Wife and I started s** therapy. Had my first session 1 on 1 with the therapist last night and she told me that wanting to have s** 3 times a week is unrealistic and if I ever tell my wife that I’m going to make it hard for her to have s** at all. Then went on to talk about how little my wife accepts my needs and frankly I can’t figure out why we’re still together except for the kids if it’s really as bad as I make it sound. Today I’m stupid depressed, but can’t talk to my wife about it because it will make things worse for her.