I’m so sick of hearing him talk about p***, s**, and fetishes. Ours is supposed to be an open, honest relationship where we can talk about anything but all he wants to talk about is s**. He turns mundane conversations into s***** innuendos and implications. And then the constant badgering to HAVE s**. There is no spontaneity anymore, it’s bedtime? No it’s playtime. And it won’t be bedtime until after he gets playtime. Even if I get kept awake until 4am to have to get up at 8, because he will whine and huff and sigh and make passive agressive comments like “well, good night I guess” and “so much for playtime” until he gets s**. I feel like a talking fleshlight to him sometimes. I give him plenty and often what he needs, but when I’m not in the mood I don’t want to be hassled like I owe him something!