Why am I in love with someone who barely acknowledges my existence. This girl has called me a great friend yet she barely communicates with me, text message or otherwise. She started dating this new guy, but he is a loser and he is going to mooch off her. It pains me to see her with someone else, but I just want her happy. This girl uses me for help and becomes friendly when she needs something. Even though I am being used, I gladly help her because I love her. I don’t want to date because no other girl compares to her. I guess not everyone finds their love in life.