Dear 4’9″ with the drunken boyfriend… List me with those who say “Don’t worry about it”. Reason being, that what you’re doing here parallels making a rule that allows someone to “vote” at a certain age… AND then critiquing who they vote for!!! This isn’t like the bumper cars, where it is your height that determines whether you can, or cannot ride. It’s your AGE. SO we as a society decided that you (AND your BF) can have s** with whomever you please as long as they are of a certain age, AND AGREEABLE to your having s** with them.

What if one day we decided that 17yo’s would be allowed to vote… IF THEY ONLY VOTED for persons who meet our approval… how STUPID would that sound??

AGE is the black-and-white line with regard to ‘s***** consent’ precisely because it qualifies the largest group of people without needing to be second-guessed, and arguably it leaves a considerable margin for error.

Heck, what if we as a society decided that S** would be forever ILLEGAL FOR JOCKEYS. They’re too small… NO S** for them – EVER!

FURTHERMORE, your boyfriend DID mention, too, that it was an “ORIGINAL REASON” as to why he was attracted. (he was NINETEEN, we should point out)

But c’mon, as a 4’9″ individual who can pass for 13 or 14, you would do best for yourself to ACT LIKE AN ADULT… and while I appreciate that you are concerned… you’re just not being “fair” to all considerations.