Dear worried wife: I know what you’re going through, it happens quite often… I have to say trust your gut… your instincts are there for a reason, but also try and keep calm, breathe, and be smart and tactful about things. You deserve someone who respects you, reassures you. I don’t know your relationship, but your partner should help you feel secure within reason. But not enforcing boundaries with an interested coworker? I’m sorry but that is a red flag. Stick up for yourself. Know your worth and don’t let him gaslight you… Reach out for support through irl friendships/supportive family.
