My boyfriend is very sweet and always makes sure I’m okay during s**. I’ve been trying to encourage him to be a little rougher from time to time and he struggles with it. He kind of grabs my hair but won’t really pull it for example. He’s comfortable putting his hand on the back of my neck while we’re doing doggy so I asked for it last night.. then I asked for his hand and I put it on my throat. He seemed surprised but interested and did very well for his first time. I love it when he holds me and kisses me and looks into my eyes; we have great, loving, passionate s**. Nothing wrong with reminding me how strong he is sometimes though.