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TO “average looking girl”

Hi,

First of all, “average looking” girls are still very much sought-after in this world. Second, the traumatic experiences you’ve had are better left to heal to their best ability without a guy right here right NOW to seem to cure your loneliness. A useful plan for you would be to seek to learn enough to understand how your parents are connected to any early childhood experiences you knew, and how, in turn, those early experiences are connected to any ‘trauma’ you’ve known with mates/partners/lovers.

Your best future relationships will come AFTER you become entirely understanding of human psychology and how sometimes, those who have known terrible experiences as a very young person, actively SEEK to repeat particularly noteworthy elements OF those terrible experiences during their loving relationships.

Not only that, but an “average looking girl” need only let TIME work in her favor… so that she can truly CHOOSE who she wants to love forever, and CHOOSE the father of her eventual children. With SO many “average looking girls” (aka “NORMAL!!!”) out there, they cannot all be on a schedule to meet the love of their lives in homeroom in 8th grade.

I know that the minutes turn to hours when you feel lonesome, but I promise you from the heart of “Simply Confess d** com” that time really IS on YOUR SIDE if you let time and nature run their courses, and keep yourself open to making friends along the way, and from those friends, when the moment is right, will arrive the future love of your life.

It remains so challenging to resist DOING SOMETHING (usually crazy) to try to speed-up that feeling of being loved… it might solve some lonesome nights now, but it very seldom brings a life that is better than what is in store for the patient and confident ones.

Good luck!

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